Wordle 282:
Tiny Stitches
as a girl my
mother and my grandmother taught me to stitch
my grandmother a
quilter always on the back of her chair
hung the scrap
bag she would sit and rock with her tiny stitches
create little
squares and triangles to be put into a quilt she was known and
admired
by all who knew
her for her tiny stitches following the drawn pencil lines
circles and
squares a blanket of warmth based on geometry
as alice walker said
of her mother she was an artist in her flower garden
at that time most
women were not encouraged to create paintings
so they created
gardens made quilts and nurtured their families
perhaps i am an
artist because the women before me didn't think they could be
weren't
allowed sometimes a women could work for a man paint the backgrounds
but weren't
encouraged to make their own statements or paint what they liked
blue ribbons aren't
often awarded to (just) mothers who hauled water
singed the feathers
from the chickens cooked sunday dinner woman would become
the author of their
own destinies claiming what was their's often considered shrill
as if after a long
sleep they are wakening they would climb to the peak
break the glass
ceiling often forgetting what women before them have gone through
making their lives
possible possible to have a sense of themselves without apology
January 15,
2017
12 comments:
This line sends shivers down my spine because of how poignant it feels: "perhaps i am an artist because the women before me didn't think they could be"
Another wonderful "quilt" of words.
ZQ
If the family had wealth women where encouraged to do some art... my grandmother painted porcelain.. we have many of her pieces still...
Wow. There are a lot of very powerful lines in this:
"a blanket of warmth based on geometry"
"perhaps i am an artist because the women before me didn't think they could be"
"often forgetting what women before them have gone through
making their lives possible possible to have a sense of themselves without apology"
You make so many salient points in this one piece, it would take a full essay to really do it justice. Gotta wonder what is so frightening about us. We've had just over fifty years to begin even scratching the surface of that mystery. Not much against all those centuries. But, maybe just enough that we won't go gently into whatever 'good night' they now have planned.
Elizabeth
I straddled both generations - saw the lives of my grandma and her friends, lived some early programmed years as a young married (when I felt older than I do now), and then came awake during the women's liberation movement in the 70's. Another huge leap to seeing a woman run for President. Wow, we have come a long way! I drove my home economics teacher crazy as I COULD not sew! Even now, when I am forced to mend something, the stitches are huge.
I was lucky to have strong women in my family. Mother of course then a feisty grandma, ambitious aunts, achieving cousin and determined wife; so I rather liked the lot of them including those others that got away!
To make a life for ourselves - without apology - is perhaps the best we can achieve.. i love how you reflect art as always being present in women's lives.. wherever we can make it
Love this Annell, as a quilter, a mother and a once career woman I can so relate to all the pieces of this poem. Our lives are stitches hand sewn together to make a piece of art - sometimes unrecognizable by others sometimes celebrated. You are an accomplished artist and stand on your own. Thank you sharing this piece and your art with the world...bkm
How wonderful! ALl of our achievements may have been bolstered by the female makers of little stitches in squares and triangles, the renderers of broad backgrounds that foregrounds so badly need.
Nice weaving of history. I especially liked this part:
blue ribbons aren't often awarded to (just) mothers who hauled water singed the feathers from the chickens cooked sunday dinner woman would become the author of their own destinies
To make a life for ourselves - without apology. Very interesting post. Thanks for this.
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